A woman should never propose marriage to her man.
I mean, I did a bit of research around the web and it’s obvious as to why, but I’ll spell it out anyway:
Because unless he takes the initiative how else is she supposed to know if he’s really committed to her?
Him saying yes to a proposal isn’t enough of a commitment. It’s a completely different thing to her saying yes if he asked her, of course. Why? Because it’s different, that’s why.
Because it’s emasculating.
There’s nothing worse than having a woman tell him she thinks he’s amazing and the pick of the bunch. Can you imagine how much that would ruin his self-esteem?
Continue reading Why a woman should never propose.
Some muses on adulthood and parenting today.
The right to choose is crucial to the personhood of men. The right to choose has to mean not only the right to choose not to bring a child into the world…but also the right to have a child, joyously, without paying the price of isolation from the world if you would rather be a full time father than enter the usual rewarded occupations.
In a society that shames caring, where some little boys are still encouraged not to play with dolls, what message are we actually giving?
Continue reading Boys to Men: choosing fatherhood in a society that shames caring
This is you. This is where all your thoughts are kept. Every other part of your body is used to protect and sustain this.
Best thing I’ve read all day?
Continue reading My true form is a tentacle beast.